Anger is a potentially dangerous emotion when allowed to fester, go unchecked, evaluated and not resolved. We all do it. It comes with being human and you are responsible for controlling yourself. Doesn't mean you won't ever feel angry or even cause anger in another person.
Anger can be the catalyst to a positive change. That change can be in yourself, in another person, in rules, laws,policies, etc.
Anger can also be the catalyst to negative results. Wars,break-ups,not speaking and even deaths.
We find they we may be angry at a spouse, our children,coworkers, neighbors,total strangers and even ourselves. That's where checking yourself begins. WHY are you angry? Is it over something you did? they did? Nothing you had a thing to do with? Something that affects you personally? Nothing that will make a difference in your life? If the anger that has been stirred either in you or by you can lead to a positive change in your life or another's then get busy changing. Turn the anger into action. If the only change the anger creates is a negative storm with dangerous possibilities--let it go. It's a powder keg of destruction.
Anger can be a call to action or a lit match to destruction.
Your choice. Choose wisely.
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